I got asked once if I thought it was selfish that I wasn’t “giving” my partner, at the time, a baby.
People are the worst.
I had to stop taking the pill after I got a blood clot a few years ago. I switched to a three year IUD and it worked really well for me. After the first month or two I had no period, no mood swings and the longest period without a depressive episode in my adult life.
I’m sure you are aware of all your options. I only mention this because, until I couldn’t take the pill and was on an IUD myself, I had only heard negative stories about them.